Usually when a wife or girlfriend find out their husband or boyfriend has an ad on an online personals dating site the man will claim he was just looking at the pictures. Is this a likely story? Do men join dating sites just to look at pics, read profiles and maybe flirt a little or do they only sign up and register on the sites so they can meet up in real life and cheat on their mate?
Let’s explore this. Recent studies and surveys indicate that 30% of the people that are registered on a dating site are married or in a monogamous relationship. That statistic is huge but it was recorded before the vast popularity of dating sites that actually cater to married people looking to cheat. These sites have almost 90% married members and they number in the terms of millions. The largest claims to have over 30 million members and there are several sites of this nature.
Due to these huge numbers, a cottage industry of private investigators have begun specializing in online infidelity investigations. This is an investigation where the suspects email address is traced back to their secret online personals ads. It can even locate secret social networks, dating sites, swinger sites, cam sites and even porn and escort service sites. Suspicious wives and husbands will pay for this kind of investigation and receive a report that details a list of all of the web sites that the suspect has registered their email on. The problem is that when the man is confronted with this report they just claim they were looking at the pictures of the pretty girls on the site. Or they could turn the tables and claim they joined the dating site to search for their wife’s secret ad.
After hearing this complaint a few hundred times the private investigators that designed the online dating service assessments came up with a follow up course of investigation to get the solid evidence needed to catch that cheater red handed. What they did was devise a very clever and elaborate trap to catch cheaters online. In general it’s known as a personals ad investigation. In this next stage of investigation the private investigation agency will use pretext personal ads designed to attract the attention of the suspect. The ads are aged and have aged content to look real. They will have corresponding aged Facebook and social network sites to prop up or validate the personal ad.
The investigators will use the fake sites to contact the suspected cheater on their personal ad and attempt to get him to exchange intimate photos or exchange phone numbers or call into a trap line where the suspects calling information will be recorded and documented to a report. now this is damning evidence you can use to confront your cheating husband and there is no way he can lie his way out of it.
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