Whether you are gay, bisexual or bi-curious, planning the first date is always intimidating. What to wear? What not to wear? Where will you go? Should you be yourself ? What should you say? Well we’ve gone out of our way to get the low down on how to make sure the first date doesn’t become the only date and compiled our top tips for gay dating.
Where to meet? Meet in a place that is neutral, and relatively close to home, somewhere with atmosphere but also somewhere you’ll be able to hear each other speak. Remember Location, location, location.
It’s all about you…both! By sharing the conversation you are showing, not only that you can give a little and take a little, but that you are confident and we all know confident equals sexy!
Don’t bring up the ex!! Just don’t go there- it’s like opening a can of worms. One which once opened cannot be closed, don’t allow yourself to bond with someone over negative experiences- it’s not a good start to what could be dazzling evening.
Unless you are purely interested in having sex with this person, don’t jump on them and start humping their leg the first opportunity you get. Remember easy cum, easy go!
Be Honest. If you like the person let them know, similarly if you don’t like them don’t waste their time. In the same breath don’t play games- they don’t work. Of course little flirty teases don’t do any harm but remember the golden rule of successful gay dating….R.E.S.P.E.C.T
Follow these simple rules, and remember to keep it casual and confident and you’re all set for a fun filled evening of fireworks, sit back and watch the sparks fly!