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Here is a great piece of online dating advice for guys, it deals with the first message you send to women.
Contrary to what you might believe, the best way to get a response from women is to show that you are not that interested to her.
I know this sounds counter intuitive, but I know for a fact that if you spend 1 hour writing your life story to a woman, she will not respond to you. Why should she? She has 30 other messages in your inbox from other guys and she just doesn’t have the time to read all about you and your life journey. Heck, she has guys to flirt with!
That is why you don’t want to send her a really long first message. You don’t want to scare her away without actually meeting her. So the best thing to do is keep it short and sweet.
Generally, as a rule the best kind of first message should be limited to roughly 2 paragraphs. I know this sounds very casual and short, but that’s exactly the vibe you want to give off to her. I mean she barely knows you and you have not even seen her in person, that’s why it should be very casual.
Be sure to include something funny, humorous or witty in the first message you send to her and make it personalized to her. Whatever you do, do not give her the impression that you have been checking her out for the past week and have finally managed to muster up the courage to contact her via messaging her. This is creepy and scares women away.
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